Fryling Sensei Seminar

posted Apr 24, 2018, 4:32 PM by The Center for Mind-Body Oneness   [ updated Apr 24, 2018, 4:32 PM ]

I would love if introductions always went this way: “Who are you, where are you from, and when are you your best self?” It felt natural, in the dojo, to start a seminar this way. But the underlying attention, focus, and purpose of that first step expressed a clarity of intention that could be shared by all, built throughout the day, and carried onward into daily life. 

Pete Seeger's words come back to me: “Any darn fool can make something complex; it takes a genius to make something simple.” In this one-day workshop in Foundations of Mind-Body Coordination, the genius of simplicity came from welcoming all the complexity to join in & settle at one point.

Our explorations began with a “simple” invitation: today we can fundamentally change our relationship to stress. In a room full of people, some with decades of experience in the dojo and some brand new to the mat, this was the first conversation offered. Sit down and talk with someone about what it's like when you are stressed, and what it would be like to bring that “best self” feeling to the stressful situation. From this place of listening & being heard, it seemed everyone's Real Lives were given a broad welcome to come join in the conversation.

Then, we dove into the laboratory, experimenting with a growing variety of simple tasks, noticing what happens when we use our mind one way versus another. The common habit of focusing on the point of stress, in any given situation, is what gets us stuck. “Aikido is an art of lines,” said Fryling Sensei. “When we think in terms of points, we lose sight of purpose & we get small.”

This is the joy & gift of learning together in the dojo. With a friend offering the role of the “stressor,” we are able to see clearly the way our attention affects our experience. One after another, simple exercises show us what happens when we focus the mind on the point of stress, and what is available when body & mind are free to move.

“Tension is collision with nature,” says Fryling Sensei. “We can only hear others' intentions when we're focused & relaxed.” When we feel the lines of intention from our partners, our “stressors,” and make no effort to tense up & fight at the point of stress, we are free to move along the most natural lines of connection.

This is simple access to complex habits; the treasure of training with others in this way is the clarity of feedback, the immediacy of understanding when mind & body are coordinated. One can go to a lecture & hear the words “Stress is a choice.” And although there can be benefits to thinking about these words, there is a limit to what the thinking mind can figure out. But the experiential, living, shared dojo of putting these words into practice brings the choice into tangible, somatic reality. Here we build the power of new habits together, in the complex theater of engagement, with the felt sense of body-mind coordination.. It brings it out of the head and right into the moment, where we can all work together in developing a greater freedom. And that's freedom each person has the power to carry into the world.


Laurel Strand Crawford is a poet who makes her home along the Mississippi river. She teaches the Ki-Aikido Foundations for Trauma Survivors at The Center for Mind-Body Oneness.

Introduction to Ki & Aikido

posted Mar 27, 2018, 1:07 PM by The Center for Mind-Body Oneness   [ updated Apr 12, 2018, 10:24 AM ]

Experience the power of relaxation, good posture, natural movement, and making positive connections with others in this seven-week introduction to Ki Development and Ki-Aikido.

Ki Development trains coordination of mind and body through meditation and movement exercises that promote our natural ability to respond to stress and conflict positively and creatively. Ki-Aikido is a non-competitive, mutually supportive martial art based on connecting with nature, with others, and with ourselves.

In this seven-week class, you will learn techniques to remain centered, focused and relaxed, while connecting with those around you. You will also learn basic dojo etiquette, meditation practices, a selection of Ki-Aikido techniques, and how to safely receive those techniques.

When: Wednesdays 6:00-8:30pm, May 2 - June 13

Where: The Center for Mind-Body Oneness, 550 Vandalia St, Studio 203, Saint Paul, MN 55114

Cost: $140 for the 7 week program, including a training uniform
and dojo membership for May & June.
Free for current dojo members

Foundations of Mind-Body Coordination: Sat, April 21

posted Feb 27, 2018, 3:39 PM by The Center for Mind-Body Oneness   [ updated Apr 12, 2018, 10:44 AM ]

Experience for yourself the power of relaxation, good posture, and a positive mind with Rich Fryling Sensei, 5th degree black belt in Ki-Aikido.
Anyone can learn and immediately apply these simple exercises to coordinate mind & body.

In this hands-on workshop, Rich Fryling will introduce you to universal principles of mind-body coordination. Saturday morning will focus on foundations of mind-body coordination. Saturday afternoon will focus on applying principles of mind-body coordination to managing stress and conflict through the non-violent martial art of Ki-Aikido. Each Saturday session is a stand-alone class, with no prerequisites. Register here for either the morning or afternoon class, or for the whole day. Full-day registration includes complementary lunch. 

The principles Fryling Sensei teaches are hands-on, experiential, and can be immediately applied to daily life. You will never hear Fryling Sensei say, “just trust me.” Instead, he will invite you to feel the power of these principles for yourself. When you do, you will know without a doubt that these are tools you can rely on to improve your performance and enhance your quality of life.

Saturday, April 21, 2018
9:00a            Doors Open
10:00-12:30  Saturday Morning Session: "Coordinating Mind & Body"
12:30-2:00    Lunch (included in full day registration)
2:00-4:30      Saturday Afternoon Session: "Introduction to Ki-Aikido" 
6:00p            Potluck Dinner & Social

Rich Fryling holds the rank of 5th degree black belt in Ki-Aikido and is a certified Associate Lecturer and Examiner with the International Ki Society, headquartered in Tochigi, Japan. He has been a student of David Shaner Sensei, 8th degree black belt and Chief Instructor of the Eastern Ki Federation, since 1989. For the past three decades, he has applied his training in mind-body coordination to his personal and professional life. He began his career at Grey Advertising where he eventually became Senior Vice President before leaving to found The Walking Brand mindfulness training program. Through The Walking Brand, Fryling Sensei provides customized programs of experiential instruction that promotes a deep understanding of relaxation and how it can be applied to work performance and daily life.

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